Here's my first attempt at recapping my dates. As mentioned in my previous post, a majority are people I met online. This makes it easier for me to remember the person and when we met. I mainly stick to 2 sites, Plentyoffish and OK Cupid! Unfortunately, POF erases messages after a while so I'll have to go by memory of the encounters from there.
So here goes :)
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Name: Gigi
First contact: Dec 9th, 2010
How'd we meet: OK Cupid/A party
The situation: I received a message from Gigi on OK Cupid. She said she read my profile and just had to contact me. She looked familiar to me and then I realized...
The dealbreaker:
...That I had met her at a party a week earlier. A party I was invited to by Cute Jew 2 (you can read all about her and why she stopped talking to me, here ). Cute Jew 2 and I had just started to date and this party was full of girls, all her friends. I knew no one. I remember eyeing Gigi a bit at the party.
The other thing that was a real deal breaker, even had I not been with Cute Jew 2 at the time, was the fact she had picked a terrible picture for her profile. She looked pale like a vampire and her hair looked wet and flat. In real life I knew she was much prettier.
So yeah we actually never met. Then things went sour real quick with Cute Jew 2, which started my drought of dates until about June.
Hello Elwood,
ReplyDeleteand welcome back.
Can I ask you, out of curiosity, why you feel like listing your dates? What does it add to your life?
And why do you do it in a mathematical way, as if it were about numbers and not persons?
It's no criticism, just a question...
stephanie