Right now I happen to have about for girls I could call up to ask out on a date. 3 of them I exchanged messages with on Ok Cupid, and 1 I met on new years eve (New Years Eve girl 2).
However, I'm doing way too much to have time that is convenient for them.
For example, after my first encounter with New Years Eve girl 2, I havn't been able to find a time I'm free that works for her. After 3 weeks of text message tag, I asked her out For Saturday night and finally she was free! Except, I realized right after asking that I wasn't.
It's tough, this dating game. I can't tell if we just have bad luck on our schedules or if she keeps blowing me off and I'm just not getting the hints.
I'll try one more time before I call
It quits on her.
Thursday, February 9, 2012
Sunday, February 5, 2012
Weekend of fun
As mentioned in my last post, I had bought a ticket to visit New Years Eve Girl who lives in the Neighboring City to My City.
After buying my ticket we both realized we barely know each other and now I was going to spend a whole weekend with her.
In the end I had a great time. We did absolutely nothing and it was fantastic.
I had been running around so much lately it was nice to just hang out and take it easy.
Friday we meet at the train station and had dinner at a bar. We then went to New Years Eve Girl's tiny place. The ceilings are about 5'10" off the ground and I'm 6'1" so there wasn't a lot of standing.
That first night was a bit awkward because we slept in her bed but we weren't sure what was going on with 'us'. We cuddles and fell asleep but I didn't sleep well at all. I have a hard time sleeping with someone else in a bed. However, lying in bed for 10 hours still felt good.
Saturday was breakfast, window shopping and yoga. We ate at her place and were going to head out for a date but she wanted to nap and after napping, we were both exhausted.
Instead we stood in and watched a movie but still changed into nice clothing (her a skirt, me a shirt and tie). It was quite romantic with wine and candles (all her idea actually).
After the movie we started to make out and then she asked if I wanted tea. I said yes and then hit a tiny flub. While drinking tea, I showed her some videos on YouTube and she started to 'loose the mood'.
Once I was done my tea, though, things started up again and we headed to her bedroom.
Not going to go into details but she is probably the 5th girl I've ever fooled around with and boy am unlearning everyone is different.
She was definitely not hard to please which took off a lot of pressure. The thing that killed me was I wasn't able to perform. This is the second time with this girl (first being when we met on new years eve). This is also not the first time this has happens to me with a girl.
In fact I've had this problem with every girl I've been with, only with my ex,I guess I got used to her because after the first couple of times it got real easy.
Wondering of its a nerves thing or maybe I'm just hit attracted sexually to these girls. That makes nonsense since
New Years Eve Girl has an amazing bod.
I wonder if I should see a doctor about this.
Sunday we slept in again and then u said my goodbyes to meet up with an old friend in the city.
Overall I had a great time with her but I never felt 100% invested. I thin ages cool but if she lived in my city I doubt I'd want to date her.
Maybe it was a mistake going to visit her but I never got the impression she wanted more from this either. I think we were both of the same page of just enjoying a fun weekend together.
I'll keep in touch with her but doubt I'll be running back to visit her.
She told me she had a date with someone the day I arrived (earlier in the day) and she knew I'd been on other dates.
In the end I had a nice experience.
After buying my ticket we both realized we barely know each other and now I was going to spend a whole weekend with her.
In the end I had a great time. We did absolutely nothing and it was fantastic.
I had been running around so much lately it was nice to just hang out and take it easy.
Friday we meet at the train station and had dinner at a bar. We then went to New Years Eve Girl's tiny place. The ceilings are about 5'10" off the ground and I'm 6'1" so there wasn't a lot of standing.
That first night was a bit awkward because we slept in her bed but we weren't sure what was going on with 'us'. We cuddles and fell asleep but I didn't sleep well at all. I have a hard time sleeping with someone else in a bed. However, lying in bed for 10 hours still felt good.
Saturday was breakfast, window shopping and yoga. We ate at her place and were going to head out for a date but she wanted to nap and after napping, we were both exhausted.
Instead we stood in and watched a movie but still changed into nice clothing (her a skirt, me a shirt and tie). It was quite romantic with wine and candles (all her idea actually).
After the movie we started to make out and then she asked if I wanted tea. I said yes and then hit a tiny flub. While drinking tea, I showed her some videos on YouTube and she started to 'loose the mood'.
Once I was done my tea, though, things started up again and we headed to her bedroom.
Not going to go into details but she is probably the 5th girl I've ever fooled around with and boy am unlearning everyone is different.
She was definitely not hard to please which took off a lot of pressure. The thing that killed me was I wasn't able to perform. This is the second time with this girl (first being when we met on new years eve). This is also not the first time this has happens to me with a girl.
In fact I've had this problem with every girl I've been with, only with my ex,I guess I got used to her because after the first couple of times it got real easy.
Wondering of its a nerves thing or maybe I'm just hit attracted sexually to these girls. That makes nonsense since
New Years Eve Girl has an amazing bod.
I wonder if I should see a doctor about this.
Sunday we slept in again and then u said my goodbyes to meet up with an old friend in the city.
Overall I had a great time with her but I never felt 100% invested. I thin ages cool but if she lived in my city I doubt I'd want to date her.
Maybe it was a mistake going to visit her but I never got the impression she wanted more from this either. I think we were both of the same page of just enjoying a fun weekend together.
I'll keep in touch with her but doubt I'll be running back to visit her.
She told me she had a date with someone the day I arrived (earlier in the day) and she knew I'd been on other dates.
In the end I had a nice experience.
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