It's been 2 weeks since Indie Rock Girl moved away.
Everyone keeps asking me how I'm doing, like I'm going to commit suicide or something.
I'm fine.
Really.
IRG and I have been in touch almost everyday by e-mail and that has been really nice although I don't expect it to last forever.Lets face it. We'll both end up meeting new people and then it'll definitly be hard to keep in touch.
On the bright side, it's now summer and in My City, when Summer hits, it's like Girls Gone Wild. The rate of car accidents go up because there are just so many gorgeous women out and about in the streets, hardly wearing anything.
I'm not planning on even going on a date with anyone anytime soon but in the meantime, I'm just going to enjoy the streets :)
Tuesday, May 25, 2010
Saturday, May 15, 2010
It begins already
Just 2 days after IRG and I had to end our 5 month relationship because she moved back home to the US for her job, I get an e-mail from OK!Cupid, stating that someone sent me a message. The username sounded familiar so I checked it out. It was familiar.
It ended up being this girl.
Guess she was checking out OK!Cupid, recognized me and wondered whatever happened to me on Plentyoffish.com. SHe asked me if we're ever going to go for a beer (she asked me that the last time).
I politely sent her a message saying how it's just been bad timing. She first contacted me when I started dating someone (IRG) and then now just 2 days after she left.
Then, just as I was about to close the browser, she start a chat with me, saying how she's sorry about my current situation and that when I'm up for it to just let her know when we can go for a beer.
Give me a few weeks and we'll see.
It ended up being this girl.
Guess she was checking out OK!Cupid, recognized me and wondered whatever happened to me on Plentyoffish.com. SHe asked me if we're ever going to go for a beer (she asked me that the last time).
I politely sent her a message saying how it's just been bad timing. She first contacted me when I started dating someone (IRG) and then now just 2 days after she left.
Then, just as I was about to close the browser, she start a chat with me, saying how she's sorry about my current situation and that when I'm up for it to just let her know when we can go for a beer.
Give me a few weeks and we'll see.
She's gone, but I'm OK
Wednesday was the last night I spent with Indie Rock Girl before she moved back to her home city in the United States.
We met up for our weekly tradition of snuggling in front of her laptop to watch the week's episode of LOST (I heart Sawyer). I surprised her by skipping my dance class and showing up an hour early. I also bought her 2 coffee mugs of her favorite cartoon character as a house warming gift for her new place in the US.
Then things got awkward.
It was inevitable that it would be awkward but we ended up making out and then she started to get all stuffy and asked to stop. I listened and we chilled for a bit more but I figured she was just getting distracted and only wanted a break to get back on track. I started it again and after a bit of making out and stuff she stopped and told me she couldn't continue.
This time she was really balling and was upset.
It felt weird to see someone have those kind of feelings over me. Don't get me wrong, I'm sad she's gone and we had to stop dating, but from the get go, we both knew it was a temp thing and went into it just having fun. I knew she's be sad we were breaking up but wasn't expecting that kind of a reaction.
I realize I have no idea what I want in a partner in terms of being serious but I did learn a lot from her and realized she had a lot of qualities that I will look for in someone.
IRG was definitely a huge step up from Wendy.
I dated Wendy for almost a full year. All she ever talked about was her friends. She didn't eat any normal food (toast for supper) so I could never take her out for dinner (or any meal really). We never had sex and would only sit around and watch a movie or tv. She'd get irritated over me really quickly, especially if I got lost while driving.
IRG on the other hand was super active. Was always up for going for a walk up the mountain or checking out a concert. She ate everything so we got to try out a bunch of fun restaurants I'd never eaten at in my own city. She was super laid back and we never got into any arguments or fights. I got us totally lost on our road trip and she didn't care one bit. She liked just driving around aimlessly. Oh, and we had sex. Lots and lots of sex. She even bought the first box of condoms we used!
Obviously I'm not jumping up and down in joy that I'm single again but after a break from the dating scene (I promised myself to give it a month or so before I go on any dates) I'll eventually get back into it. So, keep coming back. I'm sure I'll find something to write about.
We met up for our weekly tradition of snuggling in front of her laptop to watch the week's episode of LOST (I heart Sawyer). I surprised her by skipping my dance class and showing up an hour early. I also bought her 2 coffee mugs of her favorite cartoon character as a house warming gift for her new place in the US.
Then things got awkward.
It was inevitable that it would be awkward but we ended up making out and then she started to get all stuffy and asked to stop. I listened and we chilled for a bit more but I figured she was just getting distracted and only wanted a break to get back on track. I started it again and after a bit of making out and stuff she stopped and told me she couldn't continue.
This time she was really balling and was upset.
It felt weird to see someone have those kind of feelings over me. Don't get me wrong, I'm sad she's gone and we had to stop dating, but from the get go, we both knew it was a temp thing and went into it just having fun. I knew she's be sad we were breaking up but wasn't expecting that kind of a reaction.
I realize I have no idea what I want in a partner in terms of being serious but I did learn a lot from her and realized she had a lot of qualities that I will look for in someone.
IRG was definitely a huge step up from Wendy.
I dated Wendy for almost a full year. All she ever talked about was her friends. She didn't eat any normal food (toast for supper) so I could never take her out for dinner (or any meal really). We never had sex and would only sit around and watch a movie or tv. She'd get irritated over me really quickly, especially if I got lost while driving.
IRG on the other hand was super active. Was always up for going for a walk up the mountain or checking out a concert. She ate everything so we got to try out a bunch of fun restaurants I'd never eaten at in my own city. She was super laid back and we never got into any arguments or fights. I got us totally lost on our road trip and she didn't care one bit. She liked just driving around aimlessly. Oh, and we had sex. Lots and lots of sex. She even bought the first box of condoms we used!
Obviously I'm not jumping up and down in joy that I'm single again but after a break from the dating scene (I promised myself to give it a month or so before I go on any dates) I'll eventually get back into it. So, keep coming back. I'm sure I'll find something to write about.
Tuesday, May 4, 2010
Sex Machine
All week I've been thinking about what happened Saturday night.
What happened was sex.
Two hours of multi-position, glow-in-the-dark-condom, exhausting sex with Indie Rock Girl.
By the end of it I was close to hyperventilating. I literally collapsed on her and then fell to the floor where I laid in a half fetal position for a few minutes.
I can't believe I went from never having sex to that!
She's awesome and she's leaving in a week...
What happened was sex.
Two hours of multi-position, glow-in-the-dark-condom, exhausting sex with Indie Rock Girl.
By the end of it I was close to hyperventilating. I literally collapsed on her and then fell to the floor where I laid in a half fetal position for a few minutes.
I can't believe I went from never having sex to that!
She's awesome and she's leaving in a week...
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