I'm starting to realize how lately I've just had absolutely no interest in dating or pursuing anyone right now. I've been browsing a little on Plentyoffish.com and Okcupid.com but haven't really felt like contacting anyone. The one or two messages I've gotten, I didnt' really care to respond to.
Ira wants me to go with him to this No Pants Party tomorrow night, but i"m just not feeling it.
So yeah, I'm not sure if I'll have anything too exciting to write about for now. I'm just keeping it low key at the moment. I am really curious how things will turn out in a month when IRG comes back for that week, but until then I'm just going to chill.
Saturday, June 26, 2010
Sunday, June 20, 2010
I'm thinking of you...
It's been over a month and I realized I'm still thinking and talking to others about Indie Rock Girl.
Maybe I miss her more than I realize...
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In other news, I changed teh design of the site. It now matches my shirt in the picture!
Maybe I miss her more than I realize...
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In other news, I changed teh design of the site. It now matches my shirt in the picture!
Thursday, June 10, 2010
Plans Changed
Apologies for being M.I.A. for the past 2 weeks or so. I lot of things have been going on and I've just been so busy. I recently found out that my office is moving from somewhere close to my place (20 min) to somewhere far from my place (~1 hour). So I've been getting my shit together and getting motivated to start looking for a new job. I feel like it's time to move on.
This doesn't mean I haven't been having fun.
Literally only 4 days after I wrote a post about how I'm going to take at least a month off before I even look at another girl, I got drunk and went home with a friend. Totally not how I expected that night to end!
I was out doing a comedy show and had plans of maybe meeting up with this girl I know from the theater. We kind of hung out a few times with other theater folk and happen to bump into each other earlier int eh week and I went over to her place for a beer.
This night, after the show, I called her up and she was heading to a what she called a "loft party". It sounded like fun so I met her there. It ended up being one of the most straight-out-of-a-college-movie I've ever been to. You know those movies that have a scene or are about a party where it's just packed with great looking people, there's this awesome band playing and everyone is just drinking and having fun. usually this leads to some kind of hijinx afterwards? Well that's the kind of party I was at.
We arrived there at like 12am. My friend, we'll call her Ozzy, forgot to tell me, but it ended up being a 1920's themed party. Everyone there was dressed up. There were even 4 guys looking like the B-sharps.
Ozzy had brought a bunch of beers and it was too late for me to buy any but she ended up feeding me beer all night. Then the band started. They were freaking amazing.
They were like this instrumental post rock band. Ozzy worked with a bunch of them and was totally into it. It was a tiny place and it was packed and everyone was loving it. There was even a tiny bar serving alcohol (illegally?).
At one point, after the band ended, the cops showed up and Ozzy and I ended up at the apartment above the current one. Everyone kind of just moved up there, so we did too. After another hour or so of partying, the people in that apartment kicked everyone out, so we all moved back to the original one.
I'm not sure what tie it was but I realized I was standing pretty close to Ozzy and our hands kind of touched, so I went for it and held her hand and then gave her a kiss. Immediately after making out for like 2 minutes, she turns to me and says "So you want to go?". Next thing I know it I'm outside her apartment and she immediately says "want to come up?".
In her place, her roommates are still up (by now it's like 5 am, the sun ) is coming up and we sit and have more beer. Eventually, the roommate left us alone and we crawled into Ozzy's room.
Now just a reminder that by then I had like 6 or 7 beers, which for me is a lot. It didnt' take much for both of us to get naked but I was so sloshed there was no way I was going to have the ability to have actual sex. I did please her though and then we both just passed out.
It was really sloppy and the first thought I had when I woke up, surprisingly was guilt. I know there was nothing to feel guilty about but I felt I had just finished things with IRG and then without a heartbeat I went and (almost) slept with another friend of mine. I'm over it now but it did bug me for a couple of days. Especially when I got home from Ozzy's apartment and received an e-mail from IRG.
I'm super surprised I've already slept with 2 girls that I"m friends with. Actually, they are both friends with each other. Actually, Ozzy was there the night I lost my virginity to my other friend. The 3 of us went out for drinks and I ended up going home with my other friend.
I wonder how long I can keep this up :P I'm running out of female friends.
This doesn't mean I haven't been having fun.
Literally only 4 days after I wrote a post about how I'm going to take at least a month off before I even look at another girl, I got drunk and went home with a friend. Totally not how I expected that night to end!
I was out doing a comedy show and had plans of maybe meeting up with this girl I know from the theater. We kind of hung out a few times with other theater folk and happen to bump into each other earlier int eh week and I went over to her place for a beer.
This night, after the show, I called her up and she was heading to a what she called a "loft party". It sounded like fun so I met her there. It ended up being one of the most straight-out-of-a-college-movie I've ever been to. You know those movies that have a scene or are about a party where it's just packed with great looking people, there's this awesome band playing and everyone is just drinking and having fun. usually this leads to some kind of hijinx afterwards? Well that's the kind of party I was at.
We arrived there at like 12am. My friend, we'll call her Ozzy, forgot to tell me, but it ended up being a 1920's themed party. Everyone there was dressed up. There were even 4 guys looking like the B-sharps.
Ozzy had brought a bunch of beers and it was too late for me to buy any but she ended up feeding me beer all night. Then the band started. They were freaking amazing.
They were like this instrumental post rock band. Ozzy worked with a bunch of them and was totally into it. It was a tiny place and it was packed and everyone was loving it. There was even a tiny bar serving alcohol (illegally?).
At one point, after the band ended, the cops showed up and Ozzy and I ended up at the apartment above the current one. Everyone kind of just moved up there, so we did too. After another hour or so of partying, the people in that apartment kicked everyone out, so we all moved back to the original one.
I'm not sure what tie it was but I realized I was standing pretty close to Ozzy and our hands kind of touched, so I went for it and held her hand and then gave her a kiss. Immediately after making out for like 2 minutes, she turns to me and says "So you want to go?". Next thing I know it I'm outside her apartment and she immediately says "want to come up?".
In her place, her roommates are still up (by now it's like 5 am, the sun ) is coming up and we sit and have more beer. Eventually, the roommate left us alone and we crawled into Ozzy's room.
Now just a reminder that by then I had like 6 or 7 beers, which for me is a lot. It didnt' take much for both of us to get naked but I was so sloshed there was no way I was going to have the ability to have actual sex. I did please her though and then we both just passed out.
It was really sloppy and the first thought I had when I woke up, surprisingly was guilt. I know there was nothing to feel guilty about but I felt I had just finished things with IRG and then without a heartbeat I went and (almost) slept with another friend of mine. I'm over it now but it did bug me for a couple of days. Especially when I got home from Ozzy's apartment and received an e-mail from IRG.
I'm super surprised I've already slept with 2 girls that I"m friends with. Actually, they are both friends with each other. Actually, Ozzy was there the night I lost my virginity to my other friend. The 3 of us went out for drinks and I ended up going home with my other friend.
I wonder how long I can keep this up :P I'm running out of female friends.
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