Random

Name: Random Girl

First contact: Technically over a year ago but reconnected 2 weeks ago.

How'd we meet: Ok Cupid!.

The situation:

Was chilling in my room waiting for my brother to arrive when my phone beeped to inform me I got a message from Ok Cupid. It just said "what are you doing tonight?"

The message was from a girl I'd tried to contact online over a year ago with no answer. Apparently now she had a date that cancelled and was trying to find a replacement.

Told her I was busy but we ended up playing text tag for about a week. She'd text me randomly to see if I was free. We finally met but only for about 30 minutes due to the fact it was late and I had to work the next day.

After several failed attempts of arranging a second date, she randomly texted me to see if I was free that night and we went to a comedy show.

We chatted over coffee first and it went well. At the club she mostly talked to her friend she knew in the show and when it started she directed me to sit on a couch with her.

After a whole, being so close, out hands touched and we started playing "handsies".

After the show I walked her to the subway.

The dealbreaker: As mentioned in my last post, this was the date I thought went well but afraid I came off too strong.

3 days after date 2 I texted get since last minute my plans for cancelled and she seemed like the best choice for a last minute meet up. However, her reply was "I'm going on a date tonight" and "I'm not looking to date anyone exclusively".

I was fine with that and asked if we could still hang out and she said yes.

Needless to say, the random texts stopped coming.