The good kind of trouble

No, please don't worry about me. I'm not in any "trouble", but my brother Ira is:


Elwood: Hello?
Ira: Hey Elwood, how's it going?
Elwood: Hey bro. it's going good. Off to dance class, you?
Ira: Pretty good. I'm supposed to see a movie but my friend hasnt' shown up yet.
Elwood: "Friend"? Are you on a date again? With someone new?
Ira: Urm... she's new... sort of...um..
Elwood: What;'s wrong?
Ira: I'm in a lot of trouble.
Elwood (actually concerned): Really?? What kind of trouble? What happened!?
Ira: I'm secretly dating like 5 girls at once.

So after a few minutes of clarification, Ira is not sick, dying, had an accident or got fired. He's just feeling a little guilty that he's been seeing like 5 different girls at the same time and is worried a couple of them think he's being exclusive to them only.

Ha! What a problem to get worried about.

I'm just curious how long this will last :)

Good Luck Ira!

Well Needed Vacation

I haven't been on here in a while, I know. Apologies.

I've just been so busy work. One crazy deadline after another. Working late, working weekends.

Last week I hardly got to see IRG, even on the weekend. We didn't get a chance to spend any night together (which also meant no sex).

But, in the end things have seemed to work out:

-My deadline got extended to next week
-I was allowed to have Friday off work,even though it was under the context that everything would be done before Friday. Instead, as mentioned above, deadline was moved!
-Thursday night happen to be a concert I was going to with IRG so since i no longer had to get up early in the morning tonight i was able to enjoy the show even more so.
-Finally, this weekend just so happens to be the weekend that IRG and I planned on going on a tiny road trip to Canada's capital city (Ottawa).

We have a car (rented), a place to stay (hotel room) and things to do (sight see, go hiking, sex (?)).

IRG has been great about the whole thing since I've been so busy with work, she helped phone a few places for prices on a car and even printed maps without me even asking her.

So I'll be away for a few days but when I"m back, hopefully I'll have fun stuff to write about.

Uh Oh

I realized last night, that whenever I'm having sex with Indie Rock Girl, I never know what to say to indicate that I'm about to ejaculate. For some reason I keep saying "Uh oh".

She said that I don't need to say anything. I just need to go faster.

Fully noted.

My Weekend with Indie Rock Girl

This post is a reply of sorts to the very enthusiastic comment I received yesterday about my progress with Indie Rock Girl. Well, a lot has been happening lately, especially in the sex department.


Last weekend we spent over 24 hours together. Friday night we went to a concert at a museum (quite interesting) and then headed back to my place. I showed her a few funny things on my computer and then we ended up making out on my bed.

I have a single bed, so it's difficult being two people in/on it, but we made it work.

Lately I happen to have my own stashof condoms due to the box I bought a month ago and a handful of interesting ones my buddy Spider Dude brought me from Australia, including a glow in the dark one.

After many minutes of fooling around it was time for the main course and I will have to admit each time it seems to be getting better and lasting longer.

For the first time, IRG actually went down on me. I was surprised since she told me she didn't like doing it, so I never asked. She told me that she kept dreaming about it and just had to do it. I was wowed out of belief... and then returned the favor.

The next morning after so so sleep due to the small bed, we did another thing for the first time. We had a shower together. Actually, it was the first time I took a shower with someone else, ever.

I kind of found it a bit weird since we talked about it and she just wanted to shower together, not fool around or anything. I think I'll ave to get used to that kind of thing since so far a shower has been a very personal/alone time kind of activity. It was fun and interesting none the less.

The weather was fantastic on Saturday and we spent all day going to parks and bike riding. Supper was at a friend's BBQ followed by a wonderful bike ride to her place.

I had had a few glasses of wine and was exhaustedbut also really really in the mood and could tell so was she so even though I was almost falling asleep on her bed while watching something on YouTube, I managed a second whim and we went at it like rabbits.

This time is marked the first time I  made her orgasm. She said she wanted to show me how:

IRG: I want to show you how to touch me
Elwood: OK! But how, the lights are off and it's pitch black. I can't see anything!
IRG: I'll show you with my hands, you don't need to see anything.
Elwood: Oh....

After a quick tutorial and several minutes of preping, I managed to make her feel really good.

While snuggling naked in her bed, she turns to me and says:
"Wow! I was really into it tonight. I think it had to do with the fact we had the lights off this time".