Just 2 days after IRG and I had to end our 5 month relationship because she moved back home to the US for her job, I get an e-mail from OK!Cupid, stating that someone sent me a message. The username sounded familiar so I checked it out. It was familiar.
It ended up being this girl.
Guess she was checking out OK!Cupid, recognized me and wondered whatever happened to me on Plentyoffish.com. SHe asked me if we're ever going to go for a beer (she asked me that the last time).
I politely sent her a message saying how it's just been bad timing. She first contacted me when I started dating someone (IRG) and then now just 2 days after she left.
Then, just as I was about to close the browser, she start a chat with me, saying how she's sorry about my current situation and that when I'm up for it to just let her know when we can go for a beer.
Give me a few weeks and we'll see.
Saturday, May 15, 2010
She's gone, but I'm OK
Wednesday was the last night I spent with Indie Rock Girl before she moved back to her home city in the United States.
We met up for our weekly tradition of snuggling in front of her laptop to watch the week's episode of LOST (I heart Sawyer). I surprised her by skipping my dance class and showing up an hour early. I also bought her 2 coffee mugs of her favorite cartoon character as a house warming gift for her new place in the US.
Then things got awkward.
It was inevitable that it would be awkward but we ended up making out and then she started to get all stuffy and asked to stop. I listened and we chilled for a bit more but I figured she was just getting distracted and only wanted a break to get back on track. I started it again and after a bit of making out and stuff she stopped and told me she couldn't continue.
This time she was really balling and was upset.
It felt weird to see someone have those kind of feelings over me. Don't get me wrong, I'm sad she's gone and we had to stop dating, but from the get go, we both knew it was a temp thing and went into it just having fun. I knew she's be sad we were breaking up but wasn't expecting that kind of a reaction.
I realize I have no idea what I want in a partner in terms of being serious but I did learn a lot from her and realized she had a lot of qualities that I will look for in someone.
IRG was definitely a huge step up from Wendy.
I dated Wendy for almost a full year. All she ever talked about was her friends. She didn't eat any normal food (toast for supper) so I could never take her out for dinner (or any meal really). We never had sex and would only sit around and watch a movie or tv. She'd get irritated over me really quickly, especially if I got lost while driving.
IRG on the other hand was super active. Was always up for going for a walk up the mountain or checking out a concert. She ate everything so we got to try out a bunch of fun restaurants I'd never eaten at in my own city. She was super laid back and we never got into any arguments or fights. I got us totally lost on our road trip and she didn't care one bit. She liked just driving around aimlessly. Oh, and we had sex. Lots and lots of sex. She even bought the first box of condoms we used!
Obviously I'm not jumping up and down in joy that I'm single again but after a break from the dating scene (I promised myself to give it a month or so before I go on any dates) I'll eventually get back into it. So, keep coming back. I'm sure I'll find something to write about.
We met up for our weekly tradition of snuggling in front of her laptop to watch the week's episode of LOST (I heart Sawyer). I surprised her by skipping my dance class and showing up an hour early. I also bought her 2 coffee mugs of her favorite cartoon character as a house warming gift for her new place in the US.
Then things got awkward.
It was inevitable that it would be awkward but we ended up making out and then she started to get all stuffy and asked to stop. I listened and we chilled for a bit more but I figured she was just getting distracted and only wanted a break to get back on track. I started it again and after a bit of making out and stuff she stopped and told me she couldn't continue.
This time she was really balling and was upset.
It felt weird to see someone have those kind of feelings over me. Don't get me wrong, I'm sad she's gone and we had to stop dating, but from the get go, we both knew it was a temp thing and went into it just having fun. I knew she's be sad we were breaking up but wasn't expecting that kind of a reaction.
I realize I have no idea what I want in a partner in terms of being serious but I did learn a lot from her and realized she had a lot of qualities that I will look for in someone.
IRG was definitely a huge step up from Wendy.
I dated Wendy for almost a full year. All she ever talked about was her friends. She didn't eat any normal food (toast for supper) so I could never take her out for dinner (or any meal really). We never had sex and would only sit around and watch a movie or tv. She'd get irritated over me really quickly, especially if I got lost while driving.
IRG on the other hand was super active. Was always up for going for a walk up the mountain or checking out a concert. She ate everything so we got to try out a bunch of fun restaurants I'd never eaten at in my own city. She was super laid back and we never got into any arguments or fights. I got us totally lost on our road trip and she didn't care one bit. She liked just driving around aimlessly. Oh, and we had sex. Lots and lots of sex. She even bought the first box of condoms we used!
Obviously I'm not jumping up and down in joy that I'm single again but after a break from the dating scene (I promised myself to give it a month or so before I go on any dates) I'll eventually get back into it. So, keep coming back. I'm sure I'll find something to write about.
Tuesday, May 4, 2010
Sex Machine
All week I've been thinking about what happened Saturday night.
What happened was sex.
Two hours of multi-position, glow-in-the-dark-condom, exhausting sex with Indie Rock Girl.
By the end of it I was close to hyperventilating. I literally collapsed on her and then fell to the floor where I laid in a half fetal position for a few minutes.
I can't believe I went from never having sex to that!
She's awesome and she's leaving in a week...
What happened was sex.
Two hours of multi-position, glow-in-the-dark-condom, exhausting sex with Indie Rock Girl.
By the end of it I was close to hyperventilating. I literally collapsed on her and then fell to the floor where I laid in a half fetal position for a few minutes.
I can't believe I went from never having sex to that!
She's awesome and she's leaving in a week...
Thursday, April 29, 2010
The good kind of trouble
No, please don't worry about me. I'm not in any "trouble", but my brother Ira is:
Elwood: Hello?
Ira: Hey Elwood, how's it going?
Elwood: Hey bro. it's going good. Off to dance class, you?
Ira: Pretty good. I'm supposed to see a movie but my friend hasnt' shown up yet.
Elwood: "Friend"? Are you on a date again? With someone new?
Ira: Urm... she's new... sort of...um..
Elwood: What;'s wrong?
Ira: I'm in a lot of trouble.
Elwood (actually concerned): Really?? What kind of trouble? What happened!?
Ira: I'm secretly dating like 5 girls at once.
So after a few minutes of clarification, Ira is not sick, dying, had an accident or got fired. He's just feeling a little guilty that he's been seeing like 5 different girls at the same time and is worried a couple of them think he's being exclusive to them only.
Ha! What a problem to get worried about.
I'm just curious how long this will last :)
Good Luck Ira!
Elwood: Hello?
Ira: Hey Elwood, how's it going?
Elwood: Hey bro. it's going good. Off to dance class, you?
Ira: Pretty good. I'm supposed to see a movie but my friend hasnt' shown up yet.
Elwood: "Friend"? Are you on a date again? With someone new?
Ira: Urm... she's new... sort of...um..
Elwood: What;'s wrong?
Ira: I'm in a lot of trouble.
Elwood (actually concerned): Really?? What kind of trouble? What happened!?
Ira: I'm secretly dating like 5 girls at once.
So after a few minutes of clarification, Ira is not sick, dying, had an accident or got fired. He's just feeling a little guilty that he's been seeing like 5 different girls at the same time and is worried a couple of them think he's being exclusive to them only.
Ha! What a problem to get worried about.
I'm just curious how long this will last :)
Good Luck Ira!
Friday, April 23, 2010
Well Needed Vacation
I haven't been on here in a while, I know. Apologies.
I've just been so busy work. One crazy deadline after another. Working late, working weekends.
Last week I hardly got to see IRG, even on the weekend. We didn't get a chance to spend any night together (which also meant no sex).
But, in the end things have seemed to work out:
-My deadline got extended to next week
-I was allowed to have Friday off work,even though it was under the context that everything would be done before Friday. Instead, as mentioned above, deadline was moved!
-Thursday night happen to be a concert I was going to with IRG so since i no longer had to get up early in the morning tonight i was able to enjoy the show even more so.
-Finally, this weekend just so happens to be the weekend that IRG and I planned on going on a tiny road trip to Canada's capital city (Ottawa).
We have a car (rented), a place to stay (hotel room) and things to do (sight see, go hiking, sex (?)).
IRG has been great about the whole thing since I've been so busy with work, she helped phone a few places for prices on a car and even printed maps without me even asking her.
So I'll be away for a few days but when I"m back, hopefully I'll have fun stuff to write about.
I've just been so busy work. One crazy deadline after another. Working late, working weekends.
Last week I hardly got to see IRG, even on the weekend. We didn't get a chance to spend any night together (which also meant no sex).
But, in the end things have seemed to work out:
-My deadline got extended to next week
-I was allowed to have Friday off work,even though it was under the context that everything would be done before Friday. Instead, as mentioned above, deadline was moved!
-Thursday night happen to be a concert I was going to with IRG so since i no longer had to get up early in the morning tonight i was able to enjoy the show even more so.
-Finally, this weekend just so happens to be the weekend that IRG and I planned on going on a tiny road trip to Canada's capital city (Ottawa).
We have a car (rented), a place to stay (hotel room) and things to do (sight see, go hiking, sex (?)).
IRG has been great about the whole thing since I've been so busy with work, she helped phone a few places for prices on a car and even printed maps without me even asking her.
So I'll be away for a few days but when I"m back, hopefully I'll have fun stuff to write about.
Saturday, April 10, 2010
Uh Oh
I realized last night, that whenever I'm having sex with Indie Rock Girl, I never know what to say to indicate that I'm about to ejaculate. For some reason I keep saying "Uh oh".
She said that I don't need to say anything. I just need to go faster.
Fully noted.
She said that I don't need to say anything. I just need to go faster.
Fully noted.
Wednesday, April 7, 2010
My Weekend with Indie Rock Girl
This post is a reply of sorts to the very enthusiastic comment I received yesterday about my progress with Indie Rock Girl. Well, a lot has been happening lately, especially in the sex department.
Last weekend we spent over 24 hours together. Friday night we went to a concert at a museum (quite interesting) and then headed back to my place. I showed her a few funny things on my computer and then we ended up making out on my bed.
I have a single bed, so it's difficult being two people in/on it, but we made it work.
Lately I happen to have my own stashof condoms due to the box I bought a month ago and a handful of interesting ones my buddy Spider Dude brought me from Australia, including a glow in the dark one.
After many minutes of fooling around it was time for the main course and I will have to admit each time it seems to be getting better and lasting longer.
For the first time, IRG actually went down on me. I was surprised since she told me she didn't like doing it, so I never asked. She told me that she kept dreaming about it and just had to do it. I was wowed out of belief... and then returned the favor.
The next morning after so so sleep due to the small bed, we did another thing for the first time. We had a shower together. Actually, it was the first time I took a shower with someone else, ever.
I kind of found it a bit weird since we talked about it and she just wanted to shower together, not fool around or anything. I think I'll ave to get used to that kind of thing since so far a shower has been a very personal/alone time kind of activity. It was fun and interesting none the less.
The weather was fantastic on Saturday and we spent all day going to parks and bike riding. Supper was at a friend's BBQ followed by a wonderful bike ride to her place.
I had had a few glasses of wine and was exhaustedbut also really really in the mood and could tell so was she so even though I was almost falling asleep on her bed while watching something on YouTube, I managed a second whim and we went at it like rabbits.
This time is marked the first time I made her orgasm. She said she wanted to show me how:
IRG: I want to show you how to touch me
Elwood: OK! But how, the lights are off and it's pitch black. I can't see anything!
IRG: I'll show you with my hands, you don't need to see anything.
Elwood: Oh....
After a quick tutorial and several minutes of preping, I managed to make her feel really good.
While snuggling naked in her bed, she turns to me and says:
"Wow! I was really into it tonight. I think it had to do with the fact we had the lights off this time".
Last weekend we spent over 24 hours together. Friday night we went to a concert at a museum (quite interesting) and then headed back to my place. I showed her a few funny things on my computer and then we ended up making out on my bed.
I have a single bed, so it's difficult being two people in/on it, but we made it work.
Lately I happen to have my own stashof condoms due to the box I bought a month ago and a handful of interesting ones my buddy Spider Dude brought me from Australia, including a glow in the dark one.
After many minutes of fooling around it was time for the main course and I will have to admit each time it seems to be getting better and lasting longer.
For the first time, IRG actually went down on me. I was surprised since she told me she didn't like doing it, so I never asked. She told me that she kept dreaming about it and just had to do it. I was wowed out of belief... and then returned the favor.
The next morning after so so sleep due to the small bed, we did another thing for the first time. We had a shower together. Actually, it was the first time I took a shower with someone else, ever.
I kind of found it a bit weird since we talked about it and she just wanted to shower together, not fool around or anything. I think I'll ave to get used to that kind of thing since so far a shower has been a very personal/alone time kind of activity. It was fun and interesting none the less.
The weather was fantastic on Saturday and we spent all day going to parks and bike riding. Supper was at a friend's BBQ followed by a wonderful bike ride to her place.
I had had a few glasses of wine and was exhaustedbut also really really in the mood and could tell so was she so even though I was almost falling asleep on her bed while watching something on YouTube, I managed a second whim and we went at it like rabbits.
This time is marked the first time I made her orgasm. She said she wanted to show me how:
IRG: I want to show you how to touch me
Elwood: OK! But how, the lights are off and it's pitch black. I can't see anything!
IRG: I'll show you with my hands, you don't need to see anything.
Elwood: Oh....
After a quick tutorial and several minutes of preping, I managed to make her feel really good.
While snuggling naked in her bed, she turns to me and says:
"Wow! I was really into it tonight. I think it had to do with the fact we had the lights off this time".
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